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Thanks for you responses the other day regarding my post about trying to offer unsolicited help.
This has to do with a friend of mine, who brings up things that he does, saying they're not the healthies things for him to do. So I will bring them up, trying to offer more encouragement to quit, and he gets mad because I'm so negative about the choices he's made. He says they are his choices, and it's none of my business.
I figured I was helping, because he was the one who brought them up in the first place. I was wrong. It's not seriouis stuff. Just serious enough that he brought them up, and sounded unhappy about them. LIke how he drinks eight cans of Dr. Pepper a day. So every couple of months, when I come across a fact about how harmful that is, I send it to him (and half the other people in my e-ddress book) and he gets mad.
This has to do with a friend of mine, who brings up things that he does, saying they're not the healthies things for him to do. So I will bring them up, trying to offer more encouragement to quit, and he gets mad because I'm so negative about the choices he's made. He says they are his choices, and it's none of my business.
I figured I was helping, because he was the one who brought them up in the first place. I was wrong. It's not seriouis stuff. Just serious enough that he brought them up, and sounded unhappy about them. LIke how he drinks eight cans of Dr. Pepper a day. So every couple of months, when I come across a fact about how harmful that is, I send it to him (and half the other people in my e-ddress book) and he gets mad.
