tip

[low_delta]

If someone is doing something that bothers you (for a long time), and then he stops doing it, don't tell him after the fact that it bothered you. Either give him the opportunity to rectify the situation, or forver hold your peace.

I'm thinking of things that have direct bearing on a personal relationship, but imagine if somebody told you, "I'm glad you got rid of those ugly glasses," that you had for years.

Just a thought.

Comments

[serendipity.livejournal.com]

I agree.

[cynnerth.livejournal.com]

Wow, who told you that?

[low-delta.livejournal.com]

What, about the glasses?

[cynnerth.livejournal.com]

Yes...or was that purely hypothetical?

[low-delta.livejournal.com]

I don't know.

Someone once said something similar to me about my glasses, but it was sort of understandable.

Re:

[cynnerth.livejournal.com]

So then I'm curious...what brought on this post?

[low-delta.livejournal.com]

Just one of those thoughts that goes around in my head, and eventually escapes.

[specificocean.livejournal.com]

I agree. Reminds me that we have 1 mouth and 2 ears for a reason...