Mar. 9th, 2009
complaints
Mar. 9th, 2009 02:51 pmI complain a lot. Or that's how people see me. The thing is, I just need to get things off my chest. Once I tell someone about it, I'm over it. Some people can't deal with this. Some people are always positive and upbeat about everything. When I do my complaining thing, they try to tell me that I'm wrong about whatever it is. Then I need to defend myself, and I become entrenched in the complaint. While a brief expression of sympathy would be nice, if they'd just nodded and moved on, we'd both be over it. Hell, even if they ignored me completely, I would no longer be trying to convince them that I had a problem.