It's the fate of the self-indulgent, at times. Sometimes just being an ear is okay and laudable, but sometimes it gets so that you can't tell if you're being used or not - you can't tell if that person's talking to you because you're important, or because you're the ear that just happens to be there.
I've gotten to a point in my life where I - personally - can't deal with people who do nothing but whinge and won't listen to what I suggest.
I can empathise with how you feel, I wish I had some good advice to offer.
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Date: 2001-11-06 09:09 am (UTC)From:I've gotten to a point in my life where I - personally - can't deal with people who do nothing but whinge and won't listen to what I suggest.
I can empathise with how you feel, I wish I had some good advice to offer.