[identity profile] raven-nest.livejournal.com 2008-08-31 12:22 pm (UTC)(link)
My great grandmother is buried in the military section of a large cemetery. All the headstones in that one are flat and the same size. The rest of the cemetery has flat stones, but they are not regulated in size. One of her husbands (not my great grandfather) was a vet, so they allowed her in. I remember someone in the family saying that her age (108) was a factor for letting her be buried there, but I could not figure out why.

Isn't it interesting that most military cemeteries have those flat stones, but the national cemeteries that are maintained by the military have the upright lined up crosses?

[identity profile] low-delta.livejournal.com 2008-08-31 03:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I went to look at the upright stones (http://www.arlingtoncemetery.org/images/ANC_surroundings/PAGES/image39.html) at Arlington, and found pictures of some graves with spouses (http://www.arlingtoncemetery.org/images/ANC_surroundings/PAGES/image47.html). It would appear that not just anyone can have his spouse buried with him. I would guess that if there's any sort of thing about you that's interesting, you can get in - a general, near world record age, whatever. No hard and fast rule about it.

As an aside, I found a pic of Bobby Kennedy's grave (http://www.arlingtoncemetery.org/images/ANC_surroundings/PAGES/image28.html).

[identity profile] raven-nest.livejournal.com 2008-08-31 07:04 pm (UTC)(link)
WOW!! Why is Bobby not surrounded? Nice placement!

Great grandmother was an 8 year old during Cherokee removal (that would be trail of tears to everyone else) so that is another "interesting thing" about her life, other than her age at death.

She was a really cool woman. Right up until a week before she passed.